Saturday, December 13, 2008, 09:15 AM
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After a great season of racing, it has come to the end of my 21st racing season. My career has grown since it started so many years ago and I've been able to move up the ladder of racing over the years.. One man that has been with me all the way since the beginning is my father, Samuel O'Young...Posted by Administrator
About 2 wks ago, I was in Hong Kong and I recieved a call from my family. I found out that my father had suddenly passed away. It was very unexpected and a great shock to us all. I am deeply saddened with his passing, and I've put everything to a halt in my business life and come back to Vancouver immediately to be with my family during this difficult time...
I have to give a big thankyou to everyone that has sent messages of support and encouragement over this hard time. It is very difficult for me to cope with this as my father and I were so close to each other, so it has been a trying 2 weeks...
I dedicate my career to my father, because without him, I wouldn't have had the chance to make it where I am today.. I still have a long road in front of me, and my dad has prepared me well for the challenges that may lay ahead..
My fathers funeral service last week was amazing. Around 500 people came to celebrate the wonderful life he had. It was a true tribue to how many lives he has touched during his 62 years.. I spoke at my fathers funeral and below is the eulogy I prepared. Thanks again for everyone's support and I know my dad will be watching me from heaven.
For those that would like to know more about his life, feel free to click this link below and see his memorial website.. and for those who knew him, it would be great if you could leave a note in the guest book as the family apprecaites hearing stories or memories his many friends may have had during his life..
http://www.mem.com/Story.aspx?ID=2732876
Dad’s Eulogy
I guess you can say I’m still shocked…stunned with what has happened. As I was preparing for today’s eulogy, I often stared blankly into the screen without a word to write. I guess it’s hard to realize or accept that my dad, the man I turned to for everything! is no longer here…
Looking back through my life…he has been there every step of the way. He never let me down, never gave up on me, and always challenged me to understand life in order to make me who I am today. I don’t even know where to start because dad has given me and my family so much during his lifetime that a mere 5 minute talk couldn’t possibly do him justice…
One of the earlier memories was when I was about 6 yrs old. I was riding with him on the back of a 4 wheel ATV around the Westwood Mountain Raceway. Those were the care free days where we’d cruise around the outskirts of the racetrack and just watch races all day long. Racing was what he loved, and it’s something I quickly came to fall in love with too.
Its funny because at that age, most fathers are teaching their kids to kick a soccer ball, or maybe tie their shoe laces, but he would say to me “Darryl, do you see how that driver takes the racing line? He’s using every bit of the road and keeps the car so smooth.” Remember…I was six yrs old ok?!
I also remember him teaching me how to use a clutch in his red Honda crx when I was 11 years old, and I could barely see over the dash board. I remember that like it was yesterday…
I think dad and I have probably been on over 100 road trips together. He usually would be waiting for me outside my school as I got off class, and I’d run out and hop into the van and off we’d go. We would sing oldies and eat peanuts together as we drove into the night on our way to another race.
I remember driving through a mountain pass once, I was sleeping, and he shook me to wake me up. The car was stopped and he said “hop outside.” We got out of the car and I realized we were at the highest point of the mountain and when I looked up, the night sky was just covered with thousands of stars.. It was unbelievable and we stood there for half an hour just chatting…
My dad was a very special person. He had so much patience and never put pressure on me to win races. Every race I competed in, he would lean over to me on the starting grid and just say, “have fun son.” Those words always meant a lot to me because it meant that no matter how I did, win or lose, he would still be proud of me..
I think I could go on forever with these memories, because that was what we were able to do, year after year, create unforgettable memories. But instead, I want to share with you the special relationship that motorsport gave us.
My father and I started racing go-karts together since I was eight years old. My dad has been with me all the way and this year, we just finished our 21st season. During all this time, we were able to build a great relationship and we really learned to understand each other well. This was possible because we were able to spend so much time together and it gave him a real chance to talk to me and share with me all he learned over his years. He used those moments to give me life lessons, explore different perspectives, and bring me closer to God. He taught me sportsmanship, humbleness, and true family values, all characteristics that he had in him and wanted to pass on to me.
I guess I didn’t appreciate that when I was younger, but today, I see it was always in his plan. I am so thankful that he took the time to help me understand things rather than merely letting me experience them, because it’s that extra time he put in that really makes a difference. It really showed how loving he was as a father. Most importantly, he taught me the importance of our family. He cared so much for his parents, wife, kids, and grandchild, that it has left a big impression on me.
I was always scared to face this day, the day my dad would no longer be here because I relied on him so much. Every time something good or bad would happen, the first person that would come to my mind was my dad. I looked up to him so much because no matter what situation I brought forward to him, he always had the answer for me.
However, over the past few days, I have come to realization that although I feel like I’m not ready to face the world, my dad has spent all his energy equipping my sisters and I with everything we need to take on the world. I realized that over the past 28 years, he has given me a strong foundation that I can now try to build upon. I owe this all to my dad, he has made me the man I am and I will try my best to live a great and fulfilling life like he has.. I love you dad..

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